Anonymous asked: i have this friend. he's been pretty open about promiscuity, so i thought, 'hey he's pretty hot so maybe i can hit that'. so we've hung out several times and habitually gotten pretty touchy/made out/slept in the same bed. but no sex. we dabbled around 3rd base ONCE. i think it's pretty obvious that i'm up for way more, but he always ends up slowing things down and quitting. he's a confident, awesome and allegedly "horny" guy so i have no idea what the issue is. any insight?
He’s probably just not that into you/values your friendship more.
Ego bruising but probably for the best. Happens all the time.
Keep the friendship and keep it moving.