Anonymous asked: I've been fucking this really nice guy.. he's nice.. so nice, that he asks me if I'm okay when I make sounds. He won't just fuck me, it's all about taking it slow and being gentle. Should I move on and accept that we're not sexually compatible? Or ask him to be more aggressive? I feel like he already thinks I'm kind of a slut and that might scare him away.
Open up a dialog with him. Talk about what you want, how you want to treated, etc etc. If, after explaining exactly what kind of dicking you’re looking for, he’s still not getting the job done, by all means cut him loose. But please, give the guy a fair chance first.