February 2012
16 posts
Anonymous asked: SEX QUESTION: When you're fooling around with a guy and he says something like, ugh you're really hot, or whatever, what is the appropriate response?? I usually just blush and say thank you but is that my cue to talk about his junk????
Anonymous asked: a passionate romantic, like yourself, must be very excited for valentines day?
Anonymous asked: How do I know if I'm lesbian? I know that sounds like a stupid question but I'm really unsure. I find Samantha Ronson incredibly hot but then agian, I'd be equally attracted to a dude who had her type of style (minus the fedoras). Any advice?
Anonymous asked: If you went on a first date and ended up coming back to your place to watch a movie, would you have a power move at hand?
Anonymous asked: Thoughts on The Delancey ?
Anonymous asked: what's your career? I feel like you're in finance
Anonymous asked: I dont want to go to supreme, for lots of five-panel-lady-gaga-tyler-the-creator-reasons, any other skate shops in nyc now autumn has closed?
Anonymous asked: I keep running into a guy I used to hang out with (trust me, we were both interested but it just didn't work out.) I'm seeing someone else now but whenever i see this guy it's totally weird and he only says hi if I initiate it. What's the deal?
Anonymous asked: What shitty town are you originally from? You're so hyped on NYC that it's almost comical.
Anonymous asked: I read your blog for the first time before I went to bed. I randomly had a dream that I met "you", whoever who maybe. For some reason you were kind of like James Ransone but taller. It was a really nice dream.
Anonymous asked: why does everyone think you're ted barrow?
Anonymous asked: How can I get my bf to lick my anus without having to literally ask?
Anonymous asked: whose better looking you or ted barrow?
Anonymous asked: Got any good love-making session album recommendations? Moondance minus the song Moondance is a good one, but always good to mix things up.
Anonymous asked: i've seen you walkin around and you seem like a really shy, awkward guy
Anonymous asked: Do you go out to Times Square often?
January 2012
80 posts
Anonymous asked: does your online persona match your real life personality?
Anonymous asked: Whats your flat rate for OKC consulting? Don't be shy about it. Name a price
Anonymous asked: Im all about being myself and not taking OKC too serious, just curious what a good profile would look like to wrangle in as many of these good chemistry pretty faced 20 somethings.
Anonymous asked: What's your take on dating sober chicks in AA?
Anonymous asked: my ex (the first one that mattered) is moving back to new york with his new girlfriend after a stint on the west coast under the "new york is too much for me" mantra. to be honest, i'm over it. until heard that news and re-realize every 10 minutes how small ny is and dread bumping into them unprepared. it makes me realize i'm only 99% over it...how do i handle this shit now?...
Anonymous asked: I'm really into this guy at work. How do I know if he likes me? I'm really tired of crushing on guys and never having them turn into something. Any advice on how to turn this crush, into a relationship?
Anonymous asked: i have this friend. he's been pretty open about promiscuity, so i thought, 'hey he's pretty hot so maybe i can hit that'. so we've hung out several times and habitually gotten pretty touchy/made out/slept in the same bed. but no sex. we dabbled around 3rd base ONCE. i think it's pretty obvious that i'm up for way more, but he always ends up slowing things down...
Anonymous asked: ..I read his inbox, and sent box. Even up until days ago, he's messaging and conversing at length with transexuals and girls with overtly slutty photos. This is all the while we're exchanging "I love you's" and he wants me to meet his parents. He comes back from his business trip next week, I plan to confront him then. If you were me, would you give this transexual sex...
Anonymous asked: Ok so I met this boy on okcupid this past July, and we hit it off. He's awesome, charming, cute, funny, we have overlapping interests, etc. So after a month we're kinda together. He knows that I'm polyamorous and having sex with my friends and he intimates that this hurts him. So I stopped having sex with my friends and told him it's just me and you. Fast forward to Jan 2012 I...
Anonymous asked: Even Goth girls?
Anonymous asked: what makes a girl too scary intimidating for guys to ask her out?
Anonymous asked: You're possibly the only person I 'know' that can help me with this... I'm really successful in my 9 to 5 (to 7pm or 10pm) job. He's part of the so-called 'brunching class' that makes enough from his job as a DJ that he can pursue his other interests in the daytime. Our schedules just aren't always compatible. We try, but we just can't see each other as...
Anonymous asked: Have you ever lost a girl you were dating because you never told them or waited too long to tell them you loved them? Assuming you did.
Anonymous asked: you think you should be a therapist?
Anonymous asked: going on date with a guy who is supposed to move in two months, better to have fun than no fun at all, right?
Anonymous asked: New York winter has really gotten to me. I feel especially lonely when Im single and it's freezing cold outside. I'm a girl in her 20s, and I'm sick of meeting guys at bars. I'm smart, and that intimidates a lot of dudes. Where can I meet quality people that want more than booze and fornication? I'm cute enough, but Im not the flirtiest chick when sober. How do I make...
Anonymous asked: I've been fucking this really nice guy.. he's nice.. so nice, that he asks me if I'm okay when I make sounds. He won't just fuck me, it's all about taking it slow and being gentle. Should I move on and accept that we're not sexually compatible? Or ask him to be more aggressive? I feel like he already thinks I'm kind of a slut and that might scare him away.
Anonymous asked: pixie cuts: yay or nay?
Anonymous asked: you add a girl/a girl adds you on facebook. first thing you look at?
Anonymous asked: chloe sevigny- yay or nay?
Anonymous asked: At a hard time in my life, I really connected to your stories and felt a lot less alone. I miss that connection to you in some sort of sad connection that isn't really a connection type of way. Anyway. It is early enough that the snow hasn't gotten gross on the NYC streets. What are your snow day plans?
Anonymous asked: what's your stance on record collecting?
Anonymous asked: charm, depth, sex appeal, mystery. do you have all these things? if so, lets fuck.
Anonymous asked: I know Manhattan is the greatest, but have you ever had any friends leave NYC? If so, why? It seems that most people who move there end up staying, at least most of my friends have stayed.
Anonymous asked: met this guy. we fooled around (it was nicee), but my friend let it slip that my family has money. the guy that i hooked up with doesn't. so i left and he was acting kind of odd. i txted him a few times and he brought up my money situation in a kind of backhanded way, but then tried to down play what he said. after that i thought 'whatever' and tried again, but he was passive. i...
Anonymous asked: How would one go about getting into Purple Diary?
Anonymous asked: How the fuck can I be cooler??
Anonymous asked: Boyslife! Im in Europe, smokin European babes all around me, but also come cuties in the group im with, do i hold out for some foreign poon then use these girls as a last resort or just go for it allllllllll?
Anonymous asked: Any advice on getting dumped by/getting over a girl who you put onto a pedestal all summer for no legitimate reason?
Anonymous asked: I just got out of the world's messiest break up - fuck a bunch of dudes or practice self reflection/protection? I can't decide. I just feel so awkward trying to hook up with randoms after being with one person for so long.
Anonymous asked: Are you the same boy you were in high school?
Anonymous asked: Do you check your boyslife email?
Anonymous asked: in a relationship with this girl who follows me on tumblr. i followed her back because i'm tapping that and it seemed polite but her tumblr was/is lame as fuck so i ended up unfollowing her pretty recently. she figured it out and now she's pissed. advice?
Anonymous asked: why no? it will feel great and im moderately attractive with a great ass!